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Mom Finds Her Experience “Hard to Put Into Words”

First-time Host Family “clicked” with an Au Pair & knew she was the one

Ben and Cambria needed childcare for their infant and two school-aged children. With both parents working full-time, daily childcare drop-offs had become a huge hassle. So, when a friend referred them to Go Au Pair, they immediately knew it was right for them.

When they met Talme on a Skype call, they had a gut “feeling” she was the Au Pair they needed.

They did the “crazy” thing and matched with the first Au Pair they interviewed.

Except, it wasn’t crazy. Not only did Talme feel like “an old friend you haven’t seen in forever,” but Cambria says “the normal words” just don’t do her justice.

Talme impacted life in small, everyday moments. But these acts became so meaningful, the parents are dreading the day she leaves (and not just because she’s their childcare provider).

From Cambria:

Talme and her host familyI love the reactions from our friends and family when they find out that we welcomed a stranger into our home to help take care of our young children. It is often met with shock and lots of (mostly genuine) questions. This often leads to a discussion about the au pair program and then ends with my very serious recommendation that they should consider getting an au pair, too! I realize our story may seem too good to be true and I also recognize that it doesn’t work out this way for everyone.

“But there is something so satisfying about taking such a risk and having it pay off tenfold, that I feel such a strong conviction to encourage others to do the same.”

We are in our second year with Talme. She is our family’s first au pair and the first au pair we’ve ever known. In thinking about our lives before her, it is honestly hard to imagine. It’s as if she’s always been here in a way. The ease in which she integrated into our family is comparable to how one feels when you meet up with an old friend you haven’t seen in forever, but the conversation picks up right where it left off.

“It’s like she had returned from being gone but she was always there. Originally, we thought we would just get our feet wet with the au pair program but after only a few months into her first year, we knew we had to keep her.”

Talme and her host kidsI wish I could articulate the exact reasons why Talme stood out during our search for prospective au pairs, but I guess it was just a feeling – as cliché as that sounds. Almost as if there was a pull, beyond our physical control, that led us to each other. (She was the first and only au pair we interviewed.) And similarly, I find it hard to put into precise words the ways that she has impacted our family life. The normal words you’d expect to describe a meaningful relationship – helpful, honest, respectful, hardworking, flexible – don’t seem to do her justice.

The best I can do is impart some of the feelings that have resulted from her daily actions. For example, the feeling when you come home and the kids are so engaged in activities with her that they barely notice you walk in. Or the feeling when you’re sick and can barely move a muscle and then she makes you a cup of tea. Or the feeling when you go to clean the kitchen floors, but she tells you that it’s already been taken care of (and you didn’t even ask her!). Or the feeling when you see your children’s drawings always include their au pair “sister.”

“Or the feeling when your toddler finally starts saying ‘I love you’ but he only says it in Portuguese. Or the feeling when you look at your fireplace and see a stocking with ‘Talme’ hanging on the mantel.”

Talme having funHaving Talme in our lives has been nothing short of a blessing from above. She has impressed upon our family a unique view of a culture, food, language, and traditions that we have all come to respect a great deal – something more than they could ever learn from a book. She has created relationships with my children that are so close and meaningful, I dread the day she must leave us.

“She has enriched our lives in a way I hope our children never forget – I know I won’t forget. She means comfort; she means support; she means relief; she means connection; she means the world.”

Shonna Anderson

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Shonna has worked for Go Au Pair for 9+ years. She started as a Placement Coordinator creating connections between Host Families and Au Pairs. Then moved in to the Au Pair and International space working with Au Pairs from all over the world. Now she writes helpful, inspiring, and fun content for Go Au Pair. If you are interested in sharing your experience, or if you have questions or would like assistance, please reach out to @ShonnaAuPairSis on Facebook or email sanderson@goaupair.com.

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