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IAPA’s 2022 Au Pair of the Year Awarded to Go Au Pair’s Alisson from Ecuador!

The International Au Pair Association (IAPA) has announced the winner of their annual Au Pair of the Year Award: Alisson from Ecuador!

Alisson landed in Vancouver, WA with the Horn family, through Go Au Pair, in the summer of 2021. From there, she and the Horn family shared cultures through food and crafts, and got along famously. That is, until hard times hit the family through illnesses, and they had to stick together to come out positive on the other side.

Read the beautiful essays written by Alisson and her Host Dad David below.

When Alisson arrived to the airport in late August this year adorned in a puffy jacket after traveling for the better part of a day and our family welcomed her with flowers, signs, and open arms, none of us could have imagined how the next few months would bring us together. She was here, for better or worse, to be thrown into the beautiful chaos that is our family. The best part about Alisson is that she was excited to do it.

Alisson and the Horn family  Alisson couldn’t have arrived at a better time – our family does holidays BIG, and autumn was just starting. In Vancouver, Washington, we have distinct seasons, which is something that she had never experienced in her home country of Ecuador. We immediately set to sharing our cultures the best way that we knew how – with food. We made a list of her favorite meals from Ecuador that she could share with us, and also listed out the American foods not named hamburgers or hotdogs that are engrained in our regional gastronomy that she had never tried before (biscuits and gravy, anyone?).

As we established schedules and routines, Alisson’s love of crafts came out in a huge way as the leaves turned from green to brown and red. The kids were delighted to be finger painting, making woodland animals out of toilet paper tubes, and using sticks for art projects that my non-creative brain couldn’t dream of. Halloween was coming, and we planned costumes together, and went to haunted houses to prime the season’s pumps.

Then, life got hard.

Alisson and Horn family dressed up to celebrate HalloweenIn early October, my father was hospitalized with undiagnosed and untreated lung cancer, and I needed to go be by his side. With my wife being 7 months pregnant, Alisson helped to shoulder the duties of running the house in my absence without hesitation and with humility. Her caring and compassion was evident from the start, but the way that she comforted me and told me to go be with my dad when I paused to worry if I should stay or fly to Texas let me know that she understood family, and that she was now part of ours.

Dad passed away that week. My wife and Alisson were doing such a great job of managing the family, but the day after my father died, as I was preparing for the funeral, my wife and two of the three children fell ill with COVID-19, with my wife needing to be rushed to the hospital and placed on oxygen. Knowing that my family and Alisson were being spread thin, I opted to take an emergency flight home rather than bury my father. During this tumult, Alisson was so strong and present for the children, going above and beyond her duties as an au pair. She was family.

Christmastime with Alisson and the Horn familySlowly, things returned to normal, and my wife and I arranged our neighbors and former nanny to watch the kids while we returned to Texas for my dad’s memorial in late October. The family was racked with grief, and Alisson worked with the children to make a beautiful shrine to their Papaw in line with the Ecuadorian tradition of Dia de los Muertos. We still trick or treated and celebrated Halloween, and looked forward to Thanksgiving and Christmas (we move at the speed of holidays in this family).

Not a week later, in early November, my wife was rushed to the hospital again, this time with pre-eclampsia as a complication from her previous bout with COVID-19. The doctors told us that the baby had to come that day, at the risk of losing my wife. So, two months before her due date, the family was in crisis. And, just like before, Alisson stepped up to the plate, this time working with me to shoulder the stress of taking care of the kids while I went to and from the hospital. On November 8, our fourth little was born. For three weeks, she stayed in the NICU, and my wife never left her side. For three weeks, Alisson and I took care of business at home, feeling the weight of the situation, but persevering nevertheless.

When our new baby finally came home, just days before Thanksgiving, Alisson took such pride and joy in the addition to our family. Instead of shirking the unpredicted responsibilities, she embraced them. As we joined hands for a heavy-hearted benediction of our Thanksgiving meal, a job historically reserved for my dad, we shared the grief and emotion of loss, and basked in the blessing of having our healthy baby and mama home at last – together as a family.

How the Au Pair experience changed my life

What does it mean to learn new things? It can be defined in different elements, and I personally must thank life for giving me the opportunity to be an au  pair. It helped me to learn to value my family, meet wonderful people who are now my second family, and above all gave me knowledge that I am a warrior; everything that is proposed to me to fulfill, it will take time, but with effort everything will happen!

It all started with a desire to venture out to see a new country, to be able to travel, to get to know a new culture and, in short, all the good things that traveling offers you. I started to gather my documents which took me a longer time than expected. The process took two long years – the first year the director of the school I worked at asked me to continue to help her with a particular class, the second year the pandemic arrived. At that moment, I felt I had given up my dream! In three more months I would be 27 years old, and I no longer had time to apply for the trip. However, thanks to my agency I was finally able to complete all the steps so that the families could see me, and from there the au pair journey began.

I quickly had several matches on my profile, but none of them materialized. Restlessness was consuming me, and I was not sure what would happen to my future. My family did not know anything about the process this time, because when it all started I told everyone that I was leaving. When the hour of the hour my trip did not arrive, everyone continued to bother me saying that my trip was cut short, and that it was a lie – things that lowered my self-esteem more and more! I made the decision to not let anyone in my family know how the search was carrying on, so I could keep personally focused on my challenge. I continued with the process, and one day I unexpectedly saw in my mailbox a message from David, my host Dad. It was on a Friday – I replied very gladly, and we were able to talk a little more that day via chat, exchanging numbers and agreeing to have an interview on Tuesday to meet the little ones. I spoke with the children and I loved the ‘click’ we had from the first moment. By the end of our appointment, we had agreed that he would talk with his wife Kaitie and have an answer if they wanted me to stay or not! The next day I received the good news and that they would start to do the corresponding paperwork to live with them. In that moment my world stopped and only my heart exploded with happiness. I quickly made the appointment for the visa and started to gather more documents, and soon had everything ready to go. Now, it was time to tell my parents what was happening. I told them everything that had happened during all those weeks and that in a few days I would leave their side. They were very happy to support me in everything and all the love I received from my whole family was beautiful since I had the opportunity to say goodbye to each of them. I asked for the blessing of the older adults in my family, and said goodbye with huge hugs.

The day of my trip arrived, everything was ready. David, Kaitie, Levin, Vaughn, Clara (not yet Josie!) greeted me with a beautiful poster made by them, a divine bouquet of roses and – most importantly – with arms wide open. From the day I arrived until today, I cannot manage to thank them for everything I have learned! Every day there are new things and every day I feel more like a family. Each one of them has a beautiful personality. I fall in love with this family more and more as I discover new things about them every day!

David is very kind and prepares the best dinners in the world, and he has delighted us all with his dishes. Kaitie is wonderful, loving and thoughtful. She makes each one of us feel loved in the family. Levin is very original and funny; the one who dances the best among all of us. Vaughn is very sweet, helpful, and loves to play his superhero games with me. Clara is now my best friend and the funniest in the family. She is my biggest companion and I love how I become like a little girl to be able to play with her! Josie (who came after I arrived) is my beloved little girl, who steals my daily sighs and makes me feel tender every time I see her.  Mary is David’s mother with whom I had the honor of meeting and establishing a loving relationship. I also admire her a lot and she takes up a giant place in my heart. Of course, there is also the playful dog Pippa who accompanies me in the morning for a run, and the nice cat Gimli who loves to hang out in the window of my room. This family is beautiful, and yes, I arrived in a time when the Horn family was going through hard times – however, every minute I saw how these parents helped bring their children forward, no matter how hard the storm hit, they were always there with a smile for them. And yes, I went through the family’s loss as well- David’s dad Papaw passed away a day after his birthday. The whole family including me was sad, but thanks to that I was able to understand that parents are the greatest treasure we have. That day, I ran to call my dad to remind him how much I love him. I could feel the pain of losing a father and I really admire David for having all the strength to stand up and take care of his family. Time passed and even though we were sad for what happened, November would bring us a surprise – my precious little Josie! Kaitie had been pregnant since I arrived, and everything was planned so that Josie could be a Christmas gift but, as Kaitie says, she ended up being our Turkey gift! It was incredible to see how things happened from one moment to the next: Kaitie began to feel bad and David took her to the hospital on a Sunday. I wasn’t working, but as I always say, I am always there for them! So I stayed at home taking care of my three little ones and Josie was born. She was a premature baby who had to spend 14 days in the NICU. During all that time Kaitie and David were star parents, because they drew strength from where they did not have. The Horn family is a whole team and I am very proud of them because nothing has stopped them: not covid-19, not pre-eclampsia, not an unfortunate death. My heart is so grateful not only for making me love kittens, or for showing me the delicious dinners of America, or for giving me such fun moments every day, but also for teaching me that life has so much to offer – thanks to the Horn family for everything .

How did my life change being an Au pair?

In every possible way, to start with myself! I had to spend two years to receive an answer, so it changed me in the way I see time. It’s not when I want it, it is when it has to be given. It has helped me not to give up and continue with my dream despite any circumstance, it has helped me to value much more what I have now living in the present. Above all other things, it helped me to unite more with God and be more resilient with myself. Being an au pair goes beyond traveling or getting to know a new country, being an au pair means taking care of the family and always being there for them! I love the Horn family and I love my au pair adventure.

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