
The number of natural disasters happening around the globe seams to increase every year. According to scientists this is due to climate change, rapid population rise and a growing concentration of people in risky areas that weren’t populated before. Whatever the reason, we can’t deny the fact that natural disasters are becoming a frequent conversation topic among friends and family, including our children. It's important to know how we should explain these tragedies to our younger audiences.
Dr. Robi Ludwig, a Care.com contributor, wrote an article regarding how to talk to kids about the Haiti earthquake and other natural disasters. He explains that talking to kids about natural disasters might be a difficult task for parents, but it is still important tackle children's fears, thoughts, anxieties, and questions: “No matter how much we may want to, we can't completely protect our kids from what's going on in the world. Open up a dialog with your children, and when they have questions, you'll be there to help put things into perspective.”
Here are some suggestions regarding the best ways to help your children cope with natural disasters.
Should I let my children watch television?
Research has shown that watching media coverage, especially repeated viewing, can create stress for children even when they are not directly exposed to disaster. Television viewing for young children should be limited. Parents should watch with their children in order to deal with their reactions and to be available to share their reactions and correct misinformation. Assure them that chances of a similar disaster occurring in their area are remote.
Discuss current events with your child regularly. It's important to help kids think through stories they hear about. Ask questions: What do you think about these events? How do you think these things happen? These questions can encourage conversation about non-news topics too.
Put news stories in proper context
Showing that certain events are isolated or explaining how one event relates to another helps kids make better sense of what they hear. Broaden the discussion from a disturbing news item to a larger conversation: Use the story of a natural disaster as an opportunity to talk about philanthropy, cooperation, and the ability of people to cope with overwhelming hardship.
Find out what they know At this age, children know the difference between fantasy and reality, which, research shows, can actually make stories like the Haiti earthquake scarier, especially for boys. Asking a specific question, like "Have your friends and teachers been talking about this?" can help you figure out where they are coming from.
Show them that people aren't powerless
Talk about how much help and assistance Haiti is receiving and how much more is on its way. Point out the good and hopeful stories of recovery as they arise.
Help children feel safe
For children who want more information and need reassurance, parents can talk about the scientific advances made to anticipate, avert and deal with natural disasters. The role of world cooperation through agencies such as the Red Cross, the United Nations Relief Fund and others can be emphasized. Older children may wish to discuss other natural disasters, the way children's lives can be affected, and ways in which they can express their concern and support for victims of disaster.
Dr. Ludwig also reminds parents that each child is different and will have a different relationships and reactions to each disaster, but talking to your children about natural disasters and how they affect people and places will help your child develop a sense of awareness, charity and sensitivity.
Read more regarding talking with children about disasters at Care.com, Aboutourkids.org, KidsHealth.org and ABC News.
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